Maybe Matilda: November 2014

Friday, November 28, 2014

Be Thankful Features + Dare to Entertain Sneak Peek

I hope you had a fantastic Thanksgiving with lots of turkey and too much pie! My sister-in-law made the most incredible apple pie yesterday with an unreal salted caramel topping, and I want to run away with it. I think I even dreamed about it last night. #truelove

Today, I’m sharing some of my favorite projects from the Dare to DIY: Dare to Be Thankful link party that Katja (Shift Ctrl Art) hosted this week. There were so many fun projects, and I loved seeing how each of you celebrates Thanksgiving and remind yourself to be thankful in everyday life. My cohosts Décor and the Dog, Newly Woodwards, and Shift Ctrl Art will be spotlighting their favorites as well, so make sure to swing by and see what they loved.

These Pumpkin Nutella Acorns from Finding Silver Linings are darling, and deceptively easy to make. How cute would they be for a fall party, or Thanksgiving appetizer?

pumpkin nutella acorns via finding silver linings

I love the simple, rustic glam style of this Give Thanks art from This Little House of Mine. So classic and lovely, and I think it would look perfect any time of year.

Give Thanks art

You really ought to go over and check out the entire room and table that Cassie put together for her Thanksgiving feast—but my favorite little DIY element of the table is the Dream Catcher Place Cards (see them at Primitive and Proper). Such a fun, unique project for Thanksgiving, and a nice nod to the Native Americans of the first Thanksgiving.

Dream Catcher Place Cards

Thanks to everyone who joined in! And I hope you’ll join us on Monday for our next challenge: Dare to Entertain. The link up will be Monday, December 1st at Décor and the Dog. Don’t miss out!

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A little peek at my Dare to Entertain project:

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I didn’t realize until just now that my two previous Dare to Entertain projects were both table runners. Apparently I’m really branching out this year and breaking my table runner streak. In 2013 I made this simple polka dot Kraft paper table runner (and I’m a little surprised, looking back, that I participated at all, considering I had a 4-week old newborn at the time):

And the year before that, I made a ‘grateful’ table runner that Thanksgiving guests could record their ‘thankfuls’ on (I should have taken a picture—it was on my mom’s Thanksgiving table yesterday!):

Will you Dare to Entertain with us on Monday?

Wednesday, November 26, 2014

Fireplace Makeover: From Old Orange Stone to Crisp White

From the very first time we saw our house, it was obvious that something needed to be done about the fireplace. I remember wondering, when we decided to buy the house, what we could possibly do to improve it, and all my brainstorming got me nowhere. It was just so big, and so dark, and I couldn’t come up with any ideas to improve it that didn’t involve a lot more time and money and talent than we have. But we got distracted by more pressing needs in the house—new carpets, new floors, new paint, new kitchen—and I more or less forgot about the fireplace until my mom mentioned recently that she thought it might look nice painted white.

I was a little nervous about this, but one of the side effects of having an interior designer for a mother is learning to just agree with whatever she says without thinking too much about it. She’ll always be right. It’s like when people try to argue with Stacy and Clinton on What Not To Wear. Come on, folks. Even if you don’t see the vision, just accept that these people know more than you and go along with it. Trust the professionals.

Even though I trusted that my mom was right and it would be better after we were finished, it was a bit of a nerve-wracking project. The stone fireplace was ugly to start with—I don’t even like this stone on the exterior of the house, and certainly don’t want it inside—but painting it felt so permanent. What if it looked silly? I doubt we’d be able to undo it.

Luckily, I don’t need to worry about undoing it, because it turned out beautifully. (Mom was right. Thank you Mom!)

DIY Fireplace Makeover

Now that, my friends, is a change for the better. Mama knows what she’s talking about. I shouldn’t have been nervous. Even the TV, which I’ve never liked above the mantel (but there really isn’t anywhere else we can put it), looks like it makes more sense up there now.

Once again, I will assault your eyeballs with the unappealing image of the ‘before’ fireplace. This is what we started with when we purchased the house. Pardon the small child walking through the frame. (Look how teeny he is!!!)

fireplace before

You can barely see, on the far right of that picture, that there was a very awkward wall partway through the room that blocked it off from the rest of the house and gave the room a funky shape. We knocked that wall down, which opened the room up to the hallway and a few stairs that lead to the kitchen, so this room is now partially visible from the main floor (which should have been an incentive to get moving on making the fireplace look better, but wasn’t).

We also tore out the carpet and replaced it with a dark wood laminate, painted the room a soft blue (a little softer than I had intended, actually—I don’t think a single paint color in this house came out as deep or impactful as I had planned), and replaced the big, dated fan with a pretty schoolhouse light fixture from Barn Light Electric. The room was definitely improving by leaps and bounds, but the fireplace still just seemed like an eyesore. I never could figure out a way to decorate it that made it seem less gigantic and intrusive, so I gave up and ignored it for a long time. Two and a half years, to be exact. (And once again, the universe gets a nice chuckle over Jeff and I thinking when we purchased this place that we would be done with our renovations within 4 months of moving in.)

fireplace before

And then comes mom and her crazy ‘paint it white’ theory. We got together last week, distracted the kids with snacks and Netflix, and got to work. We wiped down the stone to make sure it wasn’t overly dirty or dusty, and taped off the firebox and edges of the fireplace. We taped around the mantel, too—we originally planned not to paint the mantel, and changed our minds later. We started with a coat of Kilz Premium Primer, and let me tell you, those first few strokes were scary with a capital S. (And by the way, we brushed everything on by hand with 2” brushes—the rocks were too bumpy and craggy to use a roller, so it had to be done by hand . . . and yes, it was slow going. Thank goodness Mom was willing to help out.)

Stone fireplace makeover

After the primer dried, we followed it up with 2 coats of Valspar Ultra Paint + Primer. The hearth required 3 coats of paint. I had thought, when we started, that I might like it with the mantel left natural, but after painting the fireplace and peeling all the tape off, neither of us liked how the natural mantel looked. So we went back and primed and painted it, too. (And while we were at it, we repainted all the trim in the room, too—it looked so dingy and yellowed next to the bright white fireplace.)

fireplace makeover

My mom has had two older, espresso-colored ladder bookshelves sitting in her garage for a few years, unused and unloved. She donated them to the cause, and we gave them a few coats of white spray paint while we waited for the fireplace paint to dry, then brought them in and put one on each side of the fireplace. My mom styled them (sadly, I have no talent for this sort of thing), and we couldn’t resist decorating for Christmas just a little bit early.

DIY Fireplace Makeover

DIY Fireplace Makeover

This room is sort of long and skinny—out of frame in the picture above, we have a very old piano (we think it’s about 100 years old!) (and has probably been tuned about 3 times in those 100 years—just another item on the to-do list). And I couldn’t take pictures with the piano in the frame because it’s currently covered in toys and all the fall decorations we took down to put up our Christmas décor.

DIY Fireplace Makeover

DIY Fireplace Makeover

DIY Fireplace Makeover

This picture is horribly out of focus but I had to include it because I’m so excited to finally have a use for these adorable Coke crates I’ve been hoarding for years without ever using. The Coke boxes were the perfect way to bring some color to the shelves and keep some books corralled. I can’t even tell you how pleased I am that all my books are actually part of our house/décor now, instead of being hidden in boxes in the basement.

DIY Fireplace Makeover

What do you think of our fireplace’s facelift? And what was your scariest home makeover project?

Monday, November 24, 2014

Dare to be Thankful: Thanksgiving Tree

Week one of Dare to DIY is here (and the linkup is over at Shift Ctrl Art)! This week’s theme is Dare to be Thankful, and I did the most original, mind-blowingly creative, never-before-done project.

DIY Thankful Tree // www.maybematilda.com

Or maybe you’ve seen thankful trees done a million times before, but hey. Go with it.

Forrest is finally getting old enough to really be excited about holidays. Up until now, I haven’t done a whole ton of holiday kid stuff—when I’ve tried to encourage holiday excitement or start traditions in the past, he mostly waffled between confusion and ambivalence. Hardly worth the effort on my part. But he’s been very interested in holidays lately, and it has been so fun to fuel that excitement. So a week or two ago, we capitalized on his holiday excitement to have a little family lesson on being thankful.

I used my Silhouette Portrait to cut two different leaf shapes in a variety of colors, and gathered a few twigs and sticks from the backyard. I dug these two pots out of my garage, as well as some leftover moss and foam from older projects. So this turned out to be a free project, pieced together with leftover bits of other projects—is there any better kind?

So one evening after dinner recently, we talked to Forrest about what it means to be thankful, and we each took turns naming things we felt thankful for, and writing them on our leaves. I used hot glue to attach each leaf to the tree.

DIY Thankful Tree // www.maybematilda.com

DIY Thankful Tree // www.maybematilda.com

I didn’t change much in this little vignette from my Halloween decorating—I just swapped out the candy corn hurricanes for the thankful trees and called it good. I like how they turned out—those twisted branches are pretty dang cool, if you ask me, and it’s fun to look at the words on our leaves and especially to remind Forrest, if he’s being grouchy or rude, of the things he wrote on his thankful leaves. Forrest was not feeling particularly deep the day we did our thanksgiving tree activity, actually—most of his leaves are devoted to gratefulness for various toys, his blankie earned a whopping 3 leaves, and apparently none of his family members deserve a spot on the tree (although our little neighbor Abigail got a leaf). #offended

DIY Thankful Tree // www.maybematilda.com

Make sure to check out the other cohosts’ projects for some awesome inspiration, and visit Shift Ctrl Art to link up YOUR thankful projects!

Dare to be Thankful projects

Merci Beaucoup vignette at Shift Ctrl Art // Crazy Thankful Sign at Décor and the Dog 

Thankful Trees (me) // Thanksgiving Thumbprint Wood Tray at Newly Woodwards

Saturday, November 22, 2014

6 Favorite Free Apps for Preschoolers

Tracking Pixel

Forrest is a tablet addict, no question about it. He’s been around for 4 years now, and I think it’s safe to say he’s been tablet obsessed for, oh, probably 3 of those years. At a minimum. When he gets up every morning, the tablet is the first ‘toy’ he goes for, and extra tablet time has become his reward for good behavior or trying a new food at dinnertime (and it might go without saying that losing tablet time is his most feared punishment). So I’m excited to share some of his favorite apps today in this sponsored post for Microsoft.

This tablet passion is a love I am happy to encourage. I love that he can play on the tablet by himself and feel so independent, that it keeps him entertained for such a long time (I can only build Legos with him for so long, I tell you), I love that they are easy to transport, and that there are so many fantastic apps out there to help him learn and develop. Downloading a new free app or game is almost always his preferred reward for good behavior, so we cycle through apps pretty regularly. I thought today I’d share 6 free apps that he’s been enjoying lately, that I think are awesome for a preschooler. Of course, he also loves silly and totally mindless games, but I’m trying to impress you here, of course, so I’m sticking with the ones that, as a parent, I think are the best and am eager to have him play.

Our 6 favorite free apps for preschoolers.

Wonster Words This cute app covers phonics, letters, and everyday vocabulary, as well as a short silly monster video for each word. I think the monsters are adorable, and Forrest thinks they’re hilarious. I love that he drags and drops each letter into place for each word—I’m sure that practice will help him with spelling when he gets to that point.

Funbrain Jr. is one of our more recent downloads, but I’ve been impressed with it so far. Five cute monster-themed games teach counting, matching, letters, and shapes. The games are fun and attention-grabbing for young players, and the graphics are really cute, too.

Bitsboard Preschool isn’t the least bit flashy or cute like a lot of other apps out there, but it has so much great content—and I mean tons of content. A lot of ‘free’ apps have such a limited selection of activities if you aren’t willing to pay up for more, but this awesome app has puzzles, tracing, flashcards, matching, spelling, bingo, memory games, and more for tons of different categories (like animals, colors, letters, and even emotions and concepts like ‘across’ and ‘below’). It’s not very eye-catching, but it’s a really impressive learning app with so much content.

Music Matching with Lisa Loeb has the cutest graphics, if you ask me. It’s a simple matching/memory game featuring tiles of cartoon animals playing instruments, so kids are matching the image on the tiles as well as the little sound/tune that plays when the image appears. I love the musical component in this app.

Paint Sparkles For longevity, you sure can’t beat a painting/drawing app. We’ve had this one on various phones/tablets for years now. Darcy enjoys it at 1 year old (it’s just about the only app that catches her attention, other than staring at herself in the front-facing camera—humility, thy name is Darcy), and at 4 years old, Forrest still plays with it fairly regularly. A favorite feature is snapping a picture of himself with the tablet’s camera, then coloring on top of it.

Puzzingo I certainly can’t write about Forrest’s favorite apps without including this one, which has been his long-time favorite for months now. Truth be told, I think it’s obnoxious . . . but maybe I only think that because I’ve been hearing the theme music day in and day out for months. This app comes with quite a few fun puzzles, but also has a new free puzzle download every day. And as tired as I am of this app, I have to give it some credit—he’s learned lots of new words from the puzzles. His most recent vocab acquisition: villain, from a superhero puzzle.

awesome deal on the HP Stream tablet!

If you don’t have a tablet yet, want to get an additional one specifically for the kids to use, or think a tablet would be an awesome gift for someone you love this season, you certainly don’t have to break the bank when tablet shopping. The HP Stream 7 Signature Edition Tablet is available right NOW at Microsoft Store or MicrosoftStore.com, pre-Black Friday, for only $99! And it even comes with Office 365 personal (with Word, Excel, PowerPoint, Outlook) and 1TB of OneDrive online storage, which is a $69.99 value, all for FREE.

You can find the HP Stream 7 Signature Edition Tablet in the Microsoft Store at this awesome price before Black Friday. Hello, that sounds wonderful to me, because I am not one of those enthusiastic shoppers who hops out of bed at 3AM to snag Black Friday deals. No and thanks. Go ahead and purchase it at this awesome price before the holiday shopping madness sets in, and scratch one awesome present off your Christmas list!

 awesome deal on the hp stream tablet!

 

 

This is a sponsored post written by me on behalf of Microsoft. Thank you for supporting Maybe Matilda sponsors!

Friday, November 21, 2014

Friday Snapshots

Happy Friday to one and all! Just a few quick snapshots for you today.

1. Don’t forget that Monday (11/24) is our first Dare to DIY linkup! Katja (Shift Ctrl Art) will be hosting, so get busy on a project that fits the Dare to be Thankful theme, and be ready to share it on Monday. Visit these previous posts if you need some inspiration. Here’s a sneak peek of what I made.

dare to diy sneak peek

2. Speaking of projects, my mom and I tackled an exciting one this week. Our family room (or living room? is there an actual difference or can the names be used interchangeably?) has a huge, dark, ugly orange stone fireplace, and it has been the bane of my existence for these past 2.5 years in our house. It’s nearly impossible to decorate, I’ve never been able to make it look like it fits in the room, and I’ve certainly never liked it, but also have never had any ideas of how to change it. My mom said it ought to go white. And when my mom tells me to do something in my house, I have learned to shut up and do it, because as I’ve mentioned before, she is always right. I can’t wait to get some better pictures of it all finished up—it came out amazing.

painting stone fireplace white

3. I don’t really know what’s going on here lately, but Forrest is being so nice to Darcy. For the longest time, he more or less ignored her. He was never mean to her, but he wasn’t really nice, either—he’d just kind of pretend she wasn’t there, and only acknowledged her existence if she was bothering him in some way. He seems to have just started realizing, though, that she might actually be playmate potential. He loves making her laugh, plays endless games of peekaboo with her, constantly brings her toys to play with (maybe this hand-and-foot servitude is part of the reason she is still barely crawling--why learn to move when you have a faithful servant at your beck and call, bringing you toys whenever you show even the tiniest amount of boredom?).

In the bath last night, they were both facing away from me (and I don’t think they realized I was watching) when Forrest reached out, put his arm around Darcy, and pulled her over to him. They just sat there, snuggling quietly in the tub with their heads together, for a minute or two before she scooted away to grab a toy and splash. It was one of the sweetest, most precious moments I’ve ever seen them share. Totally makes up for her furious bellowing earlier in the day when she was determined to steal his toy and he couldn’t distract her quickly enough.

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4. And, related to point 3, I think I have a tub photo addiction. At what age am I no longer allowed to take naked bath pictures of my kids?

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5. I’ve been wading through a sad little book slump this week. I’ve started 3 separate books, all of which were okay enough for me to spend an evening with, but not great enough for me to want to pick them up again the next day. Book slumps are my nemesis. Are you reading anything great lately you’d like to recommend? I’m all ears.

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Thursday, November 20, 2014

Build Your Own Apple & Reese’s Spreads Snack Bar

This shop has been compensated by Collective Bias, Inc. and its advertiser. All opinions are mine alone. Delicious peanut butter chocolate spread on crisp apples to make #AnySnackPerfect #CollectiveBias

Build Your Own Apple Snack Bar with apple rings, Reese's Spreads, and toppings. Kids can top however they like for a fun, unique snack.I think preschool is raising Forrest’s expectations for home life a hair too high. When I read to him, he now expects all sorts of voices and accents and sound effects. When he colors, he is no longer satisfied with a blank sheet of paper and a stack of markers—he now expects letter-themed coloring pages and watercolor. And when it’s snack time, he acts like I’m being such a bore when I hand him an apple or a handful of crackers. Because of course, at preschool, they eat adorable snacks (the other day, he brought home a clear plastic glove filled with colorful crackers and popcorn to look like a turkey—it was absurdly cute).

Just imagine the surprise when I presented him with a fun!! snack the other day. I ought to be more careful—I could give him a heart attack with a shock like this. It was easy and quick and fun to put together, but a lot more exciting than our typical snacks.

Build Your Own Apple Snack Bar with apple rings, Reese's Spreads, and toppings. Kids can top however they like for a fun, unique snack

We were at Walmart the other day when they were handing out samples of brand new (and super delicious!) Reese’s Spreads with delicious Jazz apples, and it took all of one bite to sell us on it. Less than one bite—I would have bought it without a sample, in all likelihood (but I’ll never say no to a friendly sample hander-outer). And it gave me the shocking idea you see here today—a snack that was actually fun and cute and preschool-worthy, if I may say so myself.

Build Your Own Apple Snack Bar

Reese’s Spreads (1 tablespoon per apple slice)
apples (I liked Granny Smith apples best—the tartness balanced out the sweet spread and toppings), core removed and cut into rings

Optional toppings:
chocolate chips
sweetened coconut flakes
granola
pecans (or other nuts)
dried fruit
sprinkles

Build Your Own Apple Snack Bar with apple rings, Reese's Spreads, and toppings. Kids can top however they like for a fun, unique snack

Spread 1 tablespoon of Reese’s Spreads over each apple slice, and let the kids decorate and top their slice however they’d like. Forrest liked the one with just granola best, and my favorite was topped with coconut and chocolate chips.

Build Your Own Apple Snack Bar with apple rings, Reese's Spreads, and toppings. Kids can top however they like for a fun, unique snack

If you are a fan of Reese’s and that perfect, heavenly combo of peanut butter and chocolate, get thee  hence to Walmart and try out new Reese’s Spreads! You can find them in the peanut butter aisle, and it will take all your willpower not to open that jar up in the car on the way home and just scoop it out with your finger. I am really excited at the thought of spreading it on homemade waffles, or warming it up and drizzling it over vanilla ice cream. Holy snack time perfection.

Reese's Spreads

Tuesday, November 18, 2014

It’s Dare to DIY Time Baby.

For the third year in a row, I’m joining Kim (Newly Woodwards ) and Michelle (Décor and the Dog) for the Dare to DIY challenge, and we are welcoming Katja from Shift Ctrl Art to the fold this year, too!

If you’re new to Dare to DIY, let me fill you in. It’s Kim’s pet project (6 years running—that’s pretty amazing), meant to brighten and enrich the holiday season. Every week from now through Christmas, we’ll be working together and encouraging each other to get creative, have fun, and do-it-ourselves this season. I know this is often a stressful time of year for people. But if you’re the sort of person who is energized and excited by creating something unique, who loves to give handmade gifts and design your own holiday décor for your home and spend your holidays making and sharing, this is the perfect way for you to be inspired and share your hard work.

You know what I love most about Dare to DIY? It’s the connection and community. There are lots of link parties out there . . . and I gave up participating in most of them years ago, because so many of them felt like nothing more than meaningless, empty attempts0 to lure people to my blog. Dare to DIY feels so different. I’ve met so many fantastic blog friends through Dare to DIY, because it isn’t a ‘drop your link and run’ sorta party. People meet each other here, and chat, and share encouragement and ideas, and make friends. I mean, I don’t want to get sappy or anything but there’s something special about Dare to DIY and the people who join in on it.

Are you in?

Dare to DIY 2014!

Here's the plan:
Each Monday, the link party goes live for that week's Dare to DIY challenge. You can link up as many projects as you wish, as long as the posts correspond with the theme of the week. You can link up on any of the four hosts’ blogs.

The linky will stay live through Wednesday. Later in the week, each of us will spotlight at least 3 projects we loved from the week on our blogs. We'll also pin those projects on our shared Pinterest board.

The only rules:
1. Please follow the Dare to DIY theme of the week (see below).
2. Please link back to Dare to DIY on the host's blog.
3. Please go to at least two other blogs and comment. This is a party. So get to know a few other bloggers.

And here are the themes:

Dare to . . . be thankful!
Party Date: Monday, Nov. 24
DIY a thanksgiving project to remind you to be grateful during this season. Ideas include a Thanksgiving advent calendar, artwork and banners.

Dare to . . . entertain!
Party Date: Monday, Dec. 1
DIY something for your table. This could be something from last week's Thanksgiving table or a new Christmas look. Get creative and use things in new ways. Or go true DIY and make something totally new. Ideas include place mats, table runners, place cards or centerpieces.

Dare to . . . give handmade!
Party Date: Monday, Dec. 8
DIY a gift made by you. Nothing is more special to give than something you created, so share projects that will be go in brown paper packages this holiday season. Ideas include bath and body items, kitchen gifts, hand-sewn clothing or home decor.

Dare to . . . deck the halls!
Party Date: Monday, Dec. 15
DIY something new to deck your halls. Did you find something in a catalog that you wish you had? Wreaths, stockings, pillows or advent calendars? Make it! Inspire us all to do the same.

So, who’s with us? Will you dare to DIY?

Monday, November 17, 2014

Bread and Wine: A Love Letter to Life Around the Table

Bread and Wine Review // www.maybematilda.com

image via Lane Baldwin Photography

Jeff has always said half-jokingly that in his family, love is expressed through food. Good food, and lots of it—the more food you’re presented with, the more you can be sure you’re loved. Whenever we visit his family in Pennsylvania, his dad asks for our menu requests weeks in advance, and regardless of our arrival time—even if our plane touches down in the middle of the night—an entire meal is always waiting for us on the table. There is always a cheesecake (Jeff’s favorite) waiting in the fridge when we show up. His mom has always stocked the pantry with her homemade bread (the likes of which I have never, and I mean never, tasted anywhere else or been able to recreate myself).

When the kids and I flew to New York last spring for my grandpa’s funeral, we didn’t have time to swing down to Pennsylvania but did have a 2-hour layover in Philadelphia where Jeff’s parents met us for a quick picnic lunch. And the ‘quick picnic lunch’ they brought was so extensive that they needed a full-sized rolling suitcase to transport it.

Like Jeff says: in the Brown family, food is love and love is food.

And they’ve more than brought me around. My family certainly enjoys plenty of delicious food too (my mom’s pumpkin bread nearly moves me to tears, and the family cookbook is an absolute treasure trove—my copy is so splattered and worn that I think the pages would crack in two if I bent them), but I don’t think food was as big of a focus for us, or as much of a personal expression as it was in Jeff’s family. I’ve come to appreciate the way his family looks at meals—yes, they are time together as a family, but the meal in itself is a show of love. Dishes are planned and shopped for and prepared, all while thinking of the family and friends who will be enjoying them together.

I’ve heard great things about Bread and Wine (from both Modern Mrs. Darcy and Everyday Reading, and I’ve learned to trust their book recommendations), so when it was on sale for Kindle a few weeks ago, I grabbed it. And then I put off reading it for weeks, because I had built up such high hopes and was nervous about having them dashed.

I shouldn’t have worried.

Bread and Wine is a collection of essays about food and faith and family and friends and relationships and the meals that keep them going. Non-fiction usually makes me nervous, but I think I’m starting to realize it doesn’t need to. Niequist’s writing is simple and beautiful and thoughtful—reading this book made me want to hug my family and invite friends into my home and share my table and my life with people I love. She made me want to grow and change (both things I generally resist as strongly as possible), and to appreciate things like a dish cooked with love and time spent with a great friend and the memories a favorite meal brings back.

Jeff walked by at one point while I was reading, and looked over my shoulder at my kindle screen and asked what was the point of highlighting anything when I was just going to highlight everything? But it’s hard to resist when nearly every paragraph either makes me laugh out loud at Niequist’s spot-on humor (on the idea that skinny people must always be happy: “I know, I know, this or that has got you down, but find a three-way mirror and look at your butt. Don't you feel better now? I know I would.”), or cry with her over the struggles we share as women (“After all these years, the heaviest thing isn’t the number on the scale but the weight of the shame I’ve carried all these years—too big, too big, too big.”), or make sure I’m creating opportunities for the relationships I care about most to develop (on eating together: “It’s not, actually, strictly, about food for me. It’s about what happens when we come together, slow down, open our homes, look into one another’s faces, listen to one another’s stories. . . . and while it’s not strictly about food, it doesn’t happen without it.”)

I guess at this point in the post, it goes without saying that I loved this book. I loved it from start to finish, because it made me excited about the things I want to always feel excited about: my family, my friendships, the time we spend together, and the food that brings us together. And the whole time I’ve been writing this post, I’ve been stopping every few minutes to flip through my  highlights to try and find a favorite quote to finish with. I’m willing to admit defeat—I might never find one favorite quote to share—so I’ll give up on the search and just go with one of the many:

It’s no accident that when a loved one dies, the family is deluged with food. The impulse to feed is innate. Food is a language of care, the thing we do when traditional language fails us, when we don’t know what to say, when there are no words to say. And food is what we offer in celebration—at weddings, at anniversaries, at happy events of every kind. It’s the thing that connects us, that bears our traditions, our sense of home and family, our deepest memories, and, on a practical level, our ability to live and breathe each day. Food matters.

And no one’s been complaining, of course, that I’ve been so excited about cooking rather killer dinners since I finished reading it (if I may say so myself).

Have you read this book? What did you think?

Thursday, November 13, 2014

Puffed Flower Square

Today’s my second go at sharing a granny square for the Blog Hop Crochet Along! It’s been so fun to see all the bloggers’ unique designs, and I’ve loved following along in the facebook group to see all the participants’ take on the patterns. Thanks to all who are joining in—it’s so fun to see everyone’s work!

I’m calling today’s pattern the Puffed Flower Square. I love the smooshy puffy flower in the center of all that traditional granny square goodness.

Puffed Flower Granny Square Pattern // www.maybematilda.com

But before we get to the pattern, here’s the recap on the crochet along so far:



Today I am excited to be joining The Blog Hop Crochet Along! Nine other bloggers and I are teaming up to a new afghan square pattern every day for a month. Crochet along with us and you will have a gorgeous new afghan just in time for the holiday season!

Here's how it is going to work:

  • Every day (M-F) a new square pattern will be posted on one of our ten blogs. 
  • You can join in the fun by crocheting each day's square on that day whenever you have time.
  • Share your progress and post photos of your squares in our facebook group.
  • By the end of the Crochet Along you will have twenty 12" squares all ready to be pieced together into a beautiful afghan just in time for the holiday season.
  • Finally, we will be hosting some fabulous giveaways! You could win Lion Brand yarn to make your own afghan, $100 CASH money, OR our COMPLETED AFGHAN! That's right, we are going to be piecing all of our squares together and shipping an afghan out to one very lucky winner.


Hopeful Honey - Persia Lou - Little Monkeys Crochet 

Fiber Flux - Loopsan One Dog Woof - Maybe Matilda

Dream a Little Bigger - Whistle & Ivy  - Gleeful Things 

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Today I am sharing the Puffed Flower Square. You can find links to all the other patterns at the end of this post. The links will be updated daily!

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Puffed Flower Granny Square Pattern // www.maybematilda.com


For my square today, I used an I hook, but feel free to use another size if you prefer, and just add or eliminate rows to end up with a 12” square.


Puffed Flower Square


Beg puff st: (yo, insert hook in st, draw up a loop) 2 times, yo, pull through all loops on hook.


Puff st: (yo, insert hook in st, draw up a loop) 3 times, yo, pull through all loops on hook.


1: Start with a magic ring; work 12 sc into ring. Join with sl st to first sc and pull yarn tail to close center. Change colors if desired.


2: Ch 3 (counts as first dc), beg puff st, ch 1, *puff st, ch 1*, repeat from * to * around, sl st to starting ch to join. Fasten off, join new color in any ch 1 space. (12 puffs, 12 ch 1 spaces)


3: Ch 3, beg puff st in ch space from previous round, ch 2, *puff st, ch 2* around in each ch space from previous round, sl st to starting ch to join. Fasten off, join new color in any ch space. (12 puffs, 12 ch 2 spaces)


4: Ch 3, beg puff st in ch space from previous round, ch 3, *puff st, ch 3* around in each ch space from previous round, sl st to starting ch to join. Fasten off, join new color in any ch space.


5: (Ch 3, dc 2, ch 3, dc 3) all in same space; this creates the first corner. *Sk puff st, dc 3 in ch sp, sk puff st, dc 3 in ch sp, sk puff st, (dc 3, ch 3, dc 3) in ch sp.* Repeat around, sl st to starting ch to join.


6-11: Sl st to ch 3 in corner of previous round, then (ch 3, dc 2, ch 3, dc 3) in corner of previous round. Work 3 dc in spaces between each (dc 3) of previous round, and (dc 3, ch 3, dc 3) in each corner space of previous round. Change colors whenever desired, and if necessary, add or eliminate rows to reach 12”.



Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Our 2014 Perfectly Personal™ Holiday Cards

2014 Shutterfly Holiday Cards! // www.maybematilda.com

This post is sponsored by Shutterfly. All opinions are mine. #ShutterflyHoliday

I’d like to go ahead and give myself a hearty and drawn-out pat on the back for having my holiday cards sitting right  here, ready to be addressed and mailed, all before Thanksgiving. I love planning and sending out Christmas cards, but it’s one of those details that I sometimes forget about in the holiday bustle—you’re putting up decorations, going to events, shopping for presents, then the first Christmas cards start trickling into your mailbox and you suddenly remember you haven’t gotten yours ready yet and is it too late to order some last minute? Are you with me here? Yeah. One day, when I’m a mature and organized adult, I’d like to be the sort who has all these details planned in advance, and it is pure luck that I have them ready this year. It feels good. So consider this post my humble brag that mine are ready to go (yay!!!) and a gentle push to get started on yours, too—why not get them done early and have a little more time and energy to enjoy the holidays with your family this year? Plus they make me feel all cheery and cozy and Christmasy, just looking at them. *happy emojis*

Our Christmas cards this year came from Shutterfly (we used Shutterfly cards last year too! you can see our 2013 cards HERE), and I love how they turned out (you can see the card design I chose and all the personalization options HERE). I used some of our most recent family pictures on them, and I love how the foil-stamped gold accents look with our photo colors. So shiny and glitzy and gorgeous. And it’s always so fun to play around with the little details to personalize the cards—I’m always a sucker for a scalloped edge, and although I didn’t want to change any of the colors on the card, that’s an option for most card designs, too. It really is fun to make little changes to make them feel mine.

Shutterfly Holiday Card sets

My favorite feature of our holiday cards this year? Hands down, the matchy-matchy stationery accessories. I mean, an adorable holiday card is certainly enough to make me smile, but golly, if you’re going to make a full matching stations suite with personalized address labels and even personalized postage with our family picture on them to coordinate with our cards?! Done. Sold. Period. (And I will whisper a secret in your ear: I discovered an awesome perk of the personalized postage that perhaps even Shutterfly hasn’t realized—since the picture is small, it’s the perfect opportunity to use a family photo I really liked that wasn’t totally in focus. Sadly, this shot was just a bit too blurry to hang on our wall, or even use on the card itself, but for a little postage stamp? No one’s the wiser, it looks clear and sharp, and I got to use a picture I might not get to use elsewhere. It’s the small things, right?)

Shutterfly Holiday cards

I love all the gold details. Of course I couldn’t resist slapping a picture of the kids on the back of our cards along with our personalized message, and the matching stickers with our name on them go perfectly with the cards. Aren’t we glad gold has come back in style? I admit, I was skeptical at first, but as with 99% of the trends I start out hating, I’ve stopped kicking against the pricks and joined the fold. The gold fold.

Truth be told, I hadn’t even considered throwing a Christmas party until I fell hard for these pretty party invitations. And now it appears I am throwing a Christmas party. Heaven help me.

Shutterfly Holiday Christmas Party invitations

Just admire with me. Look at how beautifully everything matches. It makes me happy.

Shutterfly Perfectly Personal Holiday Cards and stationery set

Shutterfly Holiday Cards

And now I’m feeling a strong urge to bake some Christmas cookies. Can we skip past Thanksgiving and fast forward to Christmas please?

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